But I seriously don't understand what everyone else sees in him.

Same, mostly. I wouldn't say no to going on a date with S7 Xander 'cause by then I think he's mostly okay, personality-wise (although by that point I no longer find him physically attractive). Objectively speaking, I think S5 Xander is an attractive catch, but only if I didn't know about all the crap he pulled in earlier years, like the love spell in BBB and the hyena memory-forgetting.

Either way, the fact that every female falls for him eventually is ew, suspicious, and deeply offensive.